Hmph!

Bah!

Life Lesson #1 - There's No Place Like Home!

Life is full of lessons, but the most important ones are the ones we learn when we are least expecting it! The best lessons to me are not the ones that are taught, but the ones that are experienced instead. 


The clock just struck 1:40AM as I sat down to write to this post. (ok fine, figuratively, it "struck", I just looked at my laptop screen to check out the real time). Today has been very interesting, right from the time I woke up. 


I retired to bed late last night (read 3:00 AM). We hosted a dinner at home and had our favourite people come over. As always, it was fun - Mansion House, Singing, Cooking, Mojito's, "Iron Nail" episode and the dogs being the highlight! 


I woke up at 7:30 - bright eyed, excited and looking forward to meeting family at Cochin. Achan Amma, Sree Mama, Kanchana Ammai and I are all set to go to Singapore for a family holiday! (Thrilled to bits! ;D)


Ankesh and Cyrus landed up at my place at 9:00 as promised and we headed out to Ofen for a quick breakfast after which Ankesh & Mustang graciously dropped me off at the airport! 


Mini lessons learnt here:

• Waking up early on a Sunday Morning is not bad at all. It's kinda fun on the contrary
• Iced Tea after an entire bottle of neat Mansion House - Bad Idea 
• 2 cups of awesome Hot Chocolate can make up for not-so-great breakfast
• It is possible to talk non-stop for an hour (even when you are running on few hours of sleep) and still manage to keep the person driving awake. Ask Ankesh - he'll vouch for it

Anyways, (I have drifted enough already)..coming back to the story. I landed up in Cochin International Airport at 1:30PM...The following are the events over the course the day and some of the biggest life lessons I have learnt.

13:40 hrs: Greeted at the airport by beaming Achan and Amma. That look on their faces (as well as mine) - priceless!

13:40 - 14:30: Some more non-stop talking in the car. Topics covered: Shopping Expeditions, Pongal Dinner, Packing Plans, Chat's Goa trip, random hoardings, jumping a signal and consequences, humid weather etc

14:30 - 15:30: Lunch and Malayalam Movie at home! Felt like heaven! 

15:30 - 16:00: Ma and Me gossip time! ;) Quickly exchanged news, stories, updates and other interesting tid bits.

16:00 - 17:30: Slept like a baby! (With dreams as random as "calf-muscles)

17:45 - 19:00: Randomness. Driving, arguing, phone calls, blouse shopping, opinions, stronger opinions etc

19:10: Land at Velliachan and Velliachetan's place (They are home alone coz Veliamma s in Mumbai for 2 weeks)

19:15 - 21:30: Achan and Velliachan decide that it's ok to drink because I can drive back home. Didn't even realize that I spent 2 hours laughing away at old stories, going through photographs, getting advice, giving advice, arguing about maintenance costs in the city, discussing movies, politics and family (of course) secretly stepping out with Velliachetan for a quick drive and alone time.

Achan and Velliachan are in "High-Spirits" by now!

21:30 - 22:15: Dinner time around the table! 

22:20: Bye-Bye's and GoodNight!

Technically, the night would have ended here! But, Velliachan and Velliachetan decide that since I am in town, it's time to celebrate - The whole gang decides to drive, pick up loads of ice cream and wake Sree Mama and Kanchana Ammai up! 

22:30: Velliachetan and Velliachan drive in front. I follow closely behind with Achan and Amma (driving the Verna in Cochin's fun!)

22:35: Fast Fast stop and pick up 2 big boxes of ice-cream

22:45: Arrive at Sree Mama and Kanchana Ammai's place

22:46: Surprise!! (It was so much fun!)

22:50 - 00:00: Achan, Velliachan and Sree Mama decide to have one more drink (to give the ice-cream company). The rest of us have just the ice-cream coupled with arguments about the family, fraternities, entrance exams, yester-years, exchange rates and the like! 

00:05: Planning for the next day. Bye Bye's  and Good Nights (For Real this time!)

00:15: Back home after an awesome drive back and an even more awesome day! 

Important Lessons Learnt Today (about the family):

1. Laziness is the middle name of everyone in the "Maharaj" family; and you know what, we are God Damn Proud of it! We work hard in our respective offices, some of us even wake up at 4:00 AM and jog (for the last 30 years)...but when we are at home..and have our legs stretched out.. We are lazy, plain lazy! 

2. We don't listen to instructions too well and we don't like to either!!

3. We love healthy discussions about life, politics, the society and religion! To put it simply, We all love to argue. But what we love the most, is to argue when we have NO clue what we are talking about!

(Quotable Quotes from a discussion today:)

"Language is not a mode of communication, it's a mode of thought!", 

"Let's start a scam!"

4. No one I ever get married to is going to be "good enough" for Achan, Chetan, Velliachetan and Sree Mama. Accept it. Fact of life. (Was told to me very seriously)

5. No one in the world loves you as much as these people do. Be it the ice-cream celebration, the extra peg they all have in your honour, the sparkle in the eye, the beans poriyal and prawns fry, the never-ending advice or the endless bullying - All of it makes every minute with family a treat! 

4. We are the MAD ones and we stand testimony to Jack Kerouac's famous Quote 

"the only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars and in the middle you see the blue centerlight pop and everybody goes 'Awww!"

5. And finally, there's no one like family and there's no place like home! You gotsta love 'em.  

(True Story!) 

@God: Thanks for the Madness!

Ever grateful. Thank You! 

Can't wait for tomorrow! Sleepy & Exhausted, but Excited Nonetheless! 

Ta.

Happy Birthday Cha! :)

Happy Birthday Cha! This one's for being the coolest, super fun,  most good-looking, most supportive, and most huggable and 'hand-holdable' person in the whole world!

                    Here's to your spirited self and your ever-youthful attitude! Happy Birthday!

The "Happiness" List

Life has been hectic and difficult over the past couple of months!! Don't you wish for those days where you could lie in bed and hope that the world forgets that you even exist!! Well, I do .. and to be honest, I feel that way quite often! I don't know what makes me happy. I feel like I do know, but in all reality, I just do not know.


Does it take the moon and a piece of Planet Mars to make me smile?? Is it really that difficult? This thought just struck me when a certain friend of mine asked me if little things ever made me happy? Of course it did!!.. Lil' lil things always made me happy...(why did he even ask me such a question? I can't stop thinking) He doesn't seem to notice my annoyance at his question and goes on to ask me what exactly makes me happy. Now, knowing me and all my thrills and frills in life..the list should have been endless, but on the contrary, I was blank and had absolutely no idea!!


So, here I am..just thinking and (thinking hard, mind you), about all the stupid, lil, trivial, silly, big, small, warm, yummy, tasty, weird things that make me happy...


Well, here it is! I proudly (and fondly) present my list of things that make me finger-licking, feet-tapping and finger-snapping happy!

• The smell of the wet earth after a long and dry spell.
• Raw Rice!! (Small portions of it :))
• Tuffy Kutta

• Baby feet...that are so pink, you could just chew them up! 
• Any four-legged creature that has paws, a tail and doesn't talk human language.
• A warm cup of filter kaapi on a rainy, saturday afternoon.
• Sunshine, sand and the water

• My old grey-ankle socks
• Arthur Hastings and Hercule Poirot :)
• Driving in the rain

• The Land at the top of the faraway tree!
• Pazham Pori and Chaya ("Tea" in Malayalam) 
• A nice, warm, loose sweater.
• Surprises - well, happy surprises! 
• Sharing the same swing - with your fav cousin

• Joshua a shopping expeditions!! :P I can laugh until I have tears in my eyes.
• Pretty feet!
• Anthony's apple pie!!
• Productive Outcomes of boredom - stone painting :)

• Reading a book during a train journey
• Onam get-togethers with family where Amma and the Ammai s decide to dress up same same 

• Chocolate Cake Dough (the finished one, just before you put it in to bake)
• 'In HariharNagar' 'Akare Akare' and 'Nadodi Kattu.'
• Cheese Burst :)
• Sunday morning sleep...no no..actually Saturday morning sleep
• Calvin's Quirky quotes!
• Playing Cards with Velliachan and Velliachetan (and Velliachetan winning every single time)

• Amma's marshmellows and the process of making it.
• Achan, Amma, Chat and me together in Munnar!! :) With Tuffy also
• Mustangs and the "dhudhak dhudhak" hoof sound
• Tinkle Comics
• Crosswords and jig-saw puzzles!!
• Appoopan Thadi (Don't know what it's called in English)

• The feeling of the wind in your hair while you're on the swing (Tired and Tested. Verdict: Out of the world feeling)
• Listening to a default playlist and being pleasantly surprised when you bump into an old favourite.
• Going through old photographs. 
• Mojari's
• Snow Globes - I can look at them for hours! 

• Lazy saturday afternoons
• Colourful Glass Bangles 
• Nandhini s mini meals with ghee
• Pranks
• Embarrassing Chetan and that "Shy-Is-Coming" face of his

• The feeling of doing NOTHING!!
• Baby eyes and puppy eyes and doggy eyes in general!!
• Happy Endings!